10 PSYCHOLOGICAL WAYS TO MAKE A GIRL LIKE YOU

 

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In this post. I’ll be sharing 10 psychological ways to get a girl to like you, but before I proceed, I want to clearly state that these tips should be applied ethically and shouldn’t be used as a manipulative tool for anyone. These tips will make that dream-girl of yours subconsciously be attracted to and want to be around you.

The first tip to make a girl like you is;

 

HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE

This is literarily the foundation of starting a great relationship with anyone, this will also give you the starting base to make her like you for whom you are. Think of it like this, if someone wants to sell you an amazing new book with all kinds of secret life formulas that will make you rich, happy, get six packs in three days, and become a new world leader, meanwhile the packaging and marketing of the book looks great, but then you opened it and read it and all it says is “life is short you don’t need these things, buy more books for better advice.” How does that sound? Annoying right? When you’re trying to get into a relationship or get a girl to like you and you have a boring life, this is literarily what you’re doing.


HAVE AN INTERESTING HOBBY OR PASSION

This is another super interesting tip that is hard to find elsewhere on the internet, literarily having just one passion will make you more interesting, additionally, it adds respect to your personality. Your hobby can be anything that you’re passionate about, just ensure it’s a true passion and not a faked one, if you’re passionate about something, that girl will notice, there’s something infinitely sexy about a guy with an intense passion towards something, it could be programming, motorcycling, playing any musical instrument, singing, sports, cooking, drawing reading the list is countless. This takes us to tip number three on ways to make a girl like you;

 

HAVE A GREAT HYGIENE

This is the first thing that gets a girl attracted to you, I don’t mean smelling amazing, you just have to smell decent, take a shower, brush your hair, dress smart, apply good deodorant if you can afford it, there’s no need dousing yourself with half a gallon of ax body spray, you just have to smell presentable, though you can buy some cologne and spray one squirt two squirts at most I recommend one on the wrist and one near your neckline, this is all it takes to smell great and make a girl like you, who doesn’t like the good smell? We all do.

The number 4th Tip that can make a girl like you is;

 

POLITELY ASK HER TO DO SOME THINGS FOR YOU

This is a secrete tip and maybe a bit manipulative but not anything evil or negative, just ask her to do something for you, there’s a psychological effect called the Benjamin effect that goes with it. When you ask a girl to do something for you, she does it, and in the end, she subconsciously likes you just a bit more.

Benjamin Franklin uses this technique on his rivals and political opponents to get them to like him more. Concerning this technique, there’s something called the “consistency bias” after someone has done something for you a couple of times, they’re more likely to do more just because they don’t want to look inconsistent.

TIP: ask for things like picking up a pencil for notes in class, giving someone a paper, or even small errands, but don’t overdo so she doesn’t feel like you’re taking advantage of her.

Tip number five (5) on how to make a girl like you is to;

 

MAKE HER LAUGH

This is a great strategy to make a girl like you, you may not think you’re funny but truth is that everyone has a sense of humor and can be fun if they try, girls love laughing, so the more you make them laugh, the better you become at making them laugh, and the more they get to like you, sounds ridiculous right? This will give you the chance to see where our eyes are going whenever she laughs, and you can easily ascertain if she’s interested in you or not.

 

BE HER FRIEND

This is where most guys get it wrong, never rush into a relationship with her, just stick around and win her heart as a friend first, have you noticed that most people tend to make friends with the opposite friends the more? I’ve seen girls who have more male friends than female friends, also, I've seen guys who have more female friends than male friends. There’s a big difference between being her friend and being in her friend zone, it’s being proven and acceptable to be in the friend zone for months at a time before moving into dating. Go closer to her, do stuff that makes her smile, do things that other guys wouldn’t do. This takes us down to the next tip on ways to make a girl like you which is;

 

BREAK THE TOUCH BARRIER

Here’s a good subconscious psychological hit that works amazingly well in many situations for example touch her shoulder, ask her for something and gently grab it out of her hand or make up some game that requires you to touch and play with her games like rock-paper-scissors, come up with a cool handshake. The idea is to make her know that you’re willing to touch her in a non-sexual way because you feel comfortable around her, to get her reaction, if she seems disgusted or scared, don’t touch her anymore. To make a girl like you, don’t rush her into things, respect her motive.

 

TELL HER SECRETS

Remember I mentioned being her friend earlier, in the course of the friendship, go intimate with her, don’t just do or say things that are not serious, tell her about yourself and ask her to do the same, not imposingly but strategically, as you tell her more things about you, this will open the door for trust and in turn, she’ll trust you more. Psychologically, we like and trust people who trust us first because we have the instinct to be wary of new people and no to trust them so when you, so when you prove that you trust her, she will start to reciprocate in the same fashion,

NOTE!!! I recommend telling her secrets that you’d be okay with if other people knew, just in case she tells someone, who’ll tell someone, that’ll tell someone..... And so on.

The next important tip to make a girl like you is to;

 

GIVE HER ALL YOUR ATTENTION  

Yes! You heard that right, it is one of the most valuable things you can give a girl if you want her, give her some quality attention, not just for a couple of minutes, look her in the eyes when she’s talking to you and make mental note of all the stuff she’s talking about, if you can, mention it in later conversations that’ll make her feel special and start enjoying your presence and will make her like you, this works with anyone.

Finally on ways to make a girl like you;

 

BEEF UP YOUR CONFIDENCE GAME


Girls like courageous guys, the best general advice I can give you to become more confident and make a girl like you is to work-out regularly if you’re in middle school or high school, I suggest 3-days a week, arms, legs, core/cardio. There’s a difference between internal courage and external courage, those with internal courage who lack external courage are the guys that get intimidated by a girls beauty, they’re scared of starting a conversation with a girl even if they have the right words to capture her attention, that initial courage is not in them, so that's it guys these are the few but effective tips that will make a girl like you.