10 SIGNS THE GUY YOU’RE DATING IS A HUSBAND MATERIAL
Here are the 10 signs of a husband material, when you’re praying and seeking God’s face to see if the person you’re dating is a husband material and the perfect match for you as a single lady, if you see some or all of these signs, then this might just be a step in the right direction for you.
Keep in mind that nobody is perfect, so your guy may not have all of these signs, because we’re all growing and maturing on a daily basis, so he might have a few of these signs on the list but will still need to work and improve on others in this list and the ones not mentioned herein.
Before I proceed, I must clearly state that for these signs to work for you as a lady, you must have positioned and prepared yourself to be a wife material first, for you to synchronize with a husband material, otherwise, he’ll end up leaving you for another lady that has the qualities of a wife material, there is time for everything in life, read this article on qualities of a wife material to know some of those qualities that’ll make you a perfect match with a husband material.
1. IF HE LOVES YOU AS MUCH AS HE LOVES HIMSELF
the first sign to know if your current boyfriend might just be your future husband is if he loves you just as much as he loves himself, if he treats you just as he treats himself, this is one of the qualities of a good husband material, you want to marry someone who respects you, doesn’t abuse you, talk down on you, if he sees that he needs something for example a pair of shoes, he gets it, if he sees that you need a new pair of shoes or you’re missing something, he’s willing to provide it, you want to be with someone who treats you as they would treat themselves, those who loves themselves, who loves God, and who can love you as well, that is the first sign that the person you’re dating is a husband material and might just be your husband to be.
2. IF HE CAN SPIRITUALLY LEAD YOU AND TEACH YOU
If he loves to teach you fresh things, if he loves to see you grow spiritually, and naturally in every single way, if he can make decisions and has direction, if he has a goal, if he could be someone who can potentially lead your family and lead your marriage, then this could be a good indicator that he’s a husband material.
3. IF HE LOVES YOU LIKE CHRIST LOVES THE CHURCH
If he’s willing to make sacrifices for you, if he’s willing to put you before he put his own self, if he’s willing to put his life in the line to serve you, build you up and to protect you, then this is a good sign that this man can potentially be the one for you.
4. IF HE’S READY TO MAKE THE TRANSITION INTO MARRIAGE
Some men are still not ready to fully transit towards marriage, they’re still tied to home, friends, bachelorhood, flirting, clubbing, hanging out with friends etc. they’re not independent enough to step out on their own and take the responsibility attached to marriage, they’re not ready to lead a family, if he’s responsible enough to carry his own weight and that of a family then this could be a good sign that he’s ready for marriage and he is husband material
5. HIS HE SOMEONE YOU CAN RESPECT?
Ask yourself if he’s someone you can truly respect, if he’s someone you could look up to, is he someone you admire? Does he want to make you grow and become a better woman? Does he possess the attributes you would like your son to manifest? Is he someone you would like your children to look up to? If your answer is yes to these questions, then it’s a sign you’re dating someone with a husband material.
6. ADDRESSES YOU WITH RESPECT
Some guys threaten to breakup with their girlfriend if she does or fails to do certain things, if the person you’re dating sees your importance in the relationship as much as he sees himself, he’ll values you and understand the fact that you’re important in his life, and not just understanding, because some guys actually understand the worth of their girlfriend, but they don’t appreciate her for it, instead they’re always looking for faults, so if the guy you’re dating understands your worth, appreciates you for it, and even when you didn’t do things rightly, he makes you understand that nobody is perfect, then he’s a husband material and should be given a second taught.
7. HUSBAND MATERIALS TAKES RESPONSIBILITY
The first mistake you don’t want to make in life is associating yourself with people who run away from responsibility, as a lady, avoid this life-regretting error, unfortunately, there are quite a lot of guys like this out there, he blows your mind with all the sweet things you’ve never heard before and then you start blushing, in the process, you give him what he wants, after a while something comes up for him to stand up to his obligation, before you realize, He has disappeared into thin air. If the guy you’re dating takes responsibility and not the nagging and bragging type, then he’s a husband material.
8. HUSBAND MATERIAL WILL TOLERATE AND LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE
Truth is, we all have flaws, but a husband material will not brood over your flaws, he’ll tolerate you and love you for who you are instead of trying to change you to become who you weren’t meant to be. Please don’t misunderstand it, there are certain factors that are liable to change in someone’s life, while there are others that can’t be changed. Divinity understands why we were all created different, there’s a purpose for it which is beneficial to the universe. A husband material understands those things that can’t be changed in your life such as the ability to talk which is dominant in most women and others and so he just loves you for who you are.
9. HUSBAND MATERIALS GIVE QUALITY ATTENTION
Attention is very vital to every woman, if your guy gives you quality attention whenever you have something to say or calls you as the case may be to check on your welfare, then this is a green flag that he’s a husband material.
10. HUSBAND MATERIAL STRENGTHENS YOUR WEAKNESS
That’s one of the major purpose of relationship, to complement each other, not to compete with each other, if your boyfriend encourages, supports and transmits the energy (love, joy, happiness, peace, comfort etc.) required to overcome and execute certain functions into your life, then he’s a husband material.
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