How to make women respect you

 HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN RESPECT YOU

Do you ever get the feeling that women don't respect you? Do they treat you like a piece of garbage and walk all over you? Are you fed up with ladies ignoring you and focusing their attention on other men? Ladies will hardly love you if they don't respect you, because a woman would barely love a man she does not respect. You want women to look up to you and respect you. When you speak, you want women to pay attention to you and respect you.

How can you make a woman respect you?

• You must first respect yourself.

If you must seek respect from women, you must first respect yourself. This means putting women on pedestals discretely and distinctively. If you discover you're always acting like a good man who supplicates ladies, then it's time to start treating yourself with kindness. It's fine to be enraged about it, it's time to wake up and take control of your life.

Consider the girl you're currently dating and ask yourself some simple questions like; why do I like her so much? Does she deserve your love or you're just infatuating? Treat your time and attention as a gift to those who deserve it and you'll be treated with respect.

When you give your undivided attention to girls who treat you terribly, it's clear that you don't cherish or respect yourself. It also implies that you have no other women in your life who treat you better. Because if you had, you would spend your time with them rather than the one who treats you like garbage. By being direct with what you want, you can stand up for yourself, by being honest with what you want, that's a terrific way to get women's respect. After all, it would generally mean that you're wishy-washy for her to treat you horribly. Make a stand for yourself by giving them a straightforward sincere request to do what you want. Without any sugar coating, you'll impress women and influence them to change their opinions about you. Women should never be treated as second class citizens, you must know how to receive second class treatment if you seek women's respect.

• Don't call or text a woman twice if she doesn't respond to your call. 

Wait for her to return your call, you need her to play her role. Don't chase after women who display no interest in you. Make yourself attractive to the women who are interested in you. Stop wasting time with women who disrespect you. This is not just disrespectful to you, but you're also wasting time that could be spent with deserving people or doing something productive.

• Set boundaries 

If you can't set boundaries in a relationship, then it's obvious she's not going to respect you. In the short term, you may think you're keeping her happy and just doing whatever she wants by stepping on your boundaries. Ironically, over time, she'll gradually lose respect and attraction for you.

This is why it is extremely important for you to get clear on what and what your boundaries are, What you're willing and unwilling to tolerate in the relationship. So you need to create certainty in the relationship.

• Don't be a yes man 

Don't always say yes to everything she wants, I'm sure some of you have heard the saying "happy wife, happy life". I'm not going to necessarily say that's a bad saying. I do believe in making sure your woman is happy, but I don't believe in compromising your true desires, beliefs, and values in order to appease her and make her happy. When you start diminishing yourself to make her happy, you then become a shell of yourself and make her believe she can run all over you. She will understand that she can manipulate you at any time. You'll have to learn how to say NO, you'll need to say it in a respectful manner, but NO has to be said.

• Don't be afaid to lose her more than you can be afraid to lose yourself. 

You should honor your woman, cherish her, and treat her like a queen. but if she thinks she can do whatever she wants and you will tolerate it, then you lose. 

You have to establish the fact that you"ll do your part as the man, honor her as your partner, but if she cannot honor you in return, then you have no problem with walking away.

• Increase your values

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• Another important thing that you must do as a man to make your woman respect you is to increase your value. If the woman in your life sees your progress from time to time, maybe you're learning a new skill, or you went back to school, maybe you got promoted at work, or you started a business, maybe you started your own company etc. All these things add to your personal value. It creates the impression that things are going well for you, you're a better man, you're a man of high value and that increases your desirability and of course respect. Women tend to respect men who know what they want, ambitious, goal getters and are able to achieve them, the moment women see you smashing every goal in your life, they know you're a man of high value, and naturally, they'll gravitate towards you and respect you without you even trying. Let them see growth happening in your life and respect will naturally come. 

• Control your emotions

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It's very difficulty for women to respect a man who cannot control his emotions, maybe you're the kind that flips into a fit of rage when something doesn't go your way, when your woman observes that, she might end up being scared of you because she thinks you'll flip on her when she does wrong. The feeling and impression that experience will give her is more of fear than respect. 

• Respect her 

I know respect is really big for men, but it is big for women as well. If you're with a partner who doesn't respect you, that could literally put a wedge in your relationship and deter it from going any further. Respect is big not just for men, but for women also. And really, if you want to be respected, you need to respect others as well. It's a mutual two way phenomenon.

You can't always disrespect people around you, disrespect your woman and demand respect from her. respect is earned, it's not requested.

Avoid being clingy 

It does not command any form of respect when you are a clingy guy. In the early days of the relationship, it might be cute, but after a while, it will look embarrassing. People need their space. As much as you love her, give her some space to do things that she loves other than being with you, that way, you'll command her respect.